If you want to switch to an adapter and threadless stem, first check that the diameter of your bars is compatible with a threadless stem - otherwise you need new bars too. Removing a quill stem from the bars involves removing tape and plug, disconnecting brake and gear cables, and removing the lever. You may have to buy a special allen wrench to loosen the lever (needs a long reach and good leverage). When you reconnect cables, you'll have to adjust a brake (do you have a 3rd hand?) and a derailleur. But the biggest PITA is retaping the bar, IMO.
KnottedYet did her own stem replacement (or was it bar replacement?) and managed just fine.
Oil is good, grease is better.
2007 Peter Mooney w/S&S couplers/Terry Butterfly
1993 Bridgestone MB-3/Avocet O2 Air 40W
1980 Columbus Frame with 1970 Campy parts
1954 Raleigh 3-speed/Brooks B72