WOOOHOOOO RM!! I Knew you could do it! and each time you ride it will just get better and better! As for the cattle guard?? just pick a straight line and ride it. We've got them all over the back roads here in NM. I was "terrified" the first time I came to one!!!
I was riding with my ex-racer buddy and bless his heart he planted himself in front of me and told me to just follow his line! after about the 4th cattle guard I was able to ride it all by myself. I Still don't like them, but at least I can ride them!
(stay off them if it's the least bit wet tho, they get slicker than - well You know - when they're wet)
Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, champagne in one hand, strawberries in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming: "Yeah Baby! What a Ride!"