hi south jersey girl
did you read some of the other threads on saddles?
if you measure the same as the saddle, you might try a slightly wider size. also
before you put DH's saddle on your bike, try tipping the nose UP on your saddle just a little bit.
I think trying your husband's saddle is a great second step
A lot of us have discovered that a really narrow NOSE on a saddle and a wider back end is helpful. I ride a Brooks myself and do not have any soft tissue issues at all.