i have a general saddle question.... what is a good amount of time to "break-in" a saddle before you decide you hate it?

i rode on a new saddle (the butterfly i mentioned in another post) last weekend for 2 rides (about 45 and 40 miles), then this weekend for 47 and 30. i did not ride all week (no motivation )

i'm going to ride again after work today.. on that fast becoming most hated saddle! cuz i'm wondering if i'm just not used to riding since i didn't ride all week?????

if (uhm.. when) i get ride of this thing and buy another... how long (hours? miles?) do i ride it to give it a chance?

i THOUGHT we had gotten it adjusted half way decent last weekend.. but apparently not (or i got out of being used to being on it) cuz this weekend i barely made my whole ride saturday and sunday i just quit at 30 even though i wanted to go futher! i just couldn't.. my tushie said NO!

i'm not saddle sore (that i can tell or notice) off the bike like i remember being a bit when i first starting riding last summer...