Actually, a StD was appropriate in this case. The wedding is in Boston the same weekend as the marathon, and lots of guests will be travelling. Booking a room within 6 weeks would be problematic.

Thanks for the insight so far. Thinking about how to word an email to the bride. I think I will wait another week in case it comes.

I have gotten 2 pieces of mail delivered to my box that were not mine last week, so there is an issue with my mail.