Highly recommend the Hincapie Lycra Power shorts
I have the Hincapie Power shorts (bought from TE this spring) with the red and gray chamois and I love them. Waistband is right at my waist and the chamois is really comfy. I usually do 60-80 mile rides and even though the chamois looks thinner than others I've used (Shebeest, Assos) it really gives me enough padding and doesn't cause any problems. Did I mention that I love them?
I usually wear a Medium and thought I should get a Large based on the description of the shorts but the large was too big and the medium fit me perfectly.
I spent this spring trying on or buying and returning shorts (mail order): Terry T short, Terry Bella, Descente Strata, Shebeest Ultra D, and Exte Ondo (both models). Hincapie and Assos won. But I like the Hincapies more than the Assos.
Carol