FishJr school issue resolved
Well - the 4K vs 5K issue resolved itself. Imagine that. It turns out the schools don't like to bump 4 year olds up into kindergarten, so there was no issue to be had.
This was a bit of a blessing in disguise. We found a fantastic place for both of the fishlets. It's a learning center. We visited for an hour or so and were quite impressed! The 4yr olds are able to read by the end of the school year and are currently learning vowel sounds, continents, math, science, french, etc. FishJr's current class is learning the letter B this week. Gee - see the difference? They consider this major prep for Kindergarten.
The 2 year olds are learning to count to 10, french, shapes, colors, weather, etc. These little guys also get lots of playtime. It looked like a great environment. Very cool place!
So - problem solved.