OK, I bit the bullet and went to the LBS today. They were wonderful. As I said, we have had a long association with them, though have never bought a bike there. I had a print out of the exact build I wanted of the Silque that had the exact same geometry as the Madone I rode. It was very confusing on line, but DH and I figured it out, and then the store owner got out the books from this year and last to make sure we were right. Obviously, I couldn't ride anything they had, but I am confident that with the geometry I had an "aha" moment with, it will be fine. I never felt pushed or bullied, and I had 2 men and one woman all helping me, making choices. I tried the DI2 on a trainer, and no way... it felt weird. I said they had to convince me and they didn't. I'm sticking with the Ultra 6800 group and getting an 11-32 on the back. Going on Thursday for the Guru fit and some choices will be made then. I will probably order some things at the cheapest level, knowing that we may switch out, based on the fit. This may be coming at an opportune time, as I discovered several big scratches on the paint of my Kuota; it appears the clear coat is rubbed off from something about the way I put my light on the bike, last Tuesday. DH clear coated it, but it looks like crap, after just 8 years. I won't get anything for this bike, so I may just keep it as a bike I could commute on, apart from my Guru.