Strippers just cut the string-as mentioned.
Terry-I know urine leaking women are quite common but I don't know about that urgent need to pee NOW thing. Kegels are recommended to help the first part (and it doesn't hurt your sex life either!)
I'm a 'heavy' for the first day, light the rest and I can't stand things up there when I'm riding so any but the first day I go without. As has been said, it does all come out in the wash.
Wow, this is a great thread!