Why a women's forum?
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Rhetorical question. This question comes up every now and then, but it's a long time since now and we have some newcomers since then. And it seemed opportune I guess.
So why hang out on a women specific forum? I wonder about this sometimes, because irl I have plenty of male friends, and often prefer their company to female friends. But I much prefer this forum to all other mixed forums (which usually means male-dominated) I follow, and I sort of wonder what makes TE so different. I don't really believe that men and women are that different, there are huge differences between individuals after all. And I certainly don't buy into any idea that we're all one big happy supportive sisterhood either.
But I do feel that on TE, even with all our varying opinions, communication as a whole is better, more thoughtful and more understanding than on mixed forums. Maybe women in general, as a group, are better at communicating in writing, maybe the ones left here are the wishy-washy peacy ones because all the more aggressive-type girls have thrown up their hands and left . But especially when it comes to subtle and sensitive issues like trust, achievement, support, insecurity this forum is fantastic. Which means that even if I'm posting a purely technical, mechanical question, I feel like I'm asking good people who wish me well, not just anyone who bothers to answer.
This is an open forum of course, so there are no secrets and anyone can read it even though the vast majority of posters are women. But I feel that women tend to answer and behave differently in a women-only group than in a mixed group, especially on the subjects I mentioned above. And I think there is some kind of fellow understanding there, however small it may be, and I wonder if it maybe negates some of the fact that most of us are in effect talking to strangers. Even from my first posts, I didn't feel that you were total strangers. You were female and you were cyclists after all, how bad could you be
My, I'm wordy tonight. So - why are you here on TE, and is it important to you that it's a women's forum?
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