Thanks for this thread everyone. I have great difficulty, not with one's spiritual beliefs, but with the seeming need to impose that belief system upon everyone else. As Trek pointed out, some of us practice in traditions that are old and have strong ethical systems, or we have an ethically based system of right and wrong. I simply cannot understand the need (in THIS country in particular) to impose that upon everyone else, tho' I get the impression that 'evangelizing' (i.e., those people who come quite uninvited to MY door) is about this. This is a huge blind spot! It seems to me that these folks should practice loving others and for developing in themselves compassion for all, in all of their weirdness and wonderfulness; love between people is such a rare and precious thing. When people are not allowed to express it, maybe are even killed for it, I can imagine that this takes a tremendous psychological and emotional toll--how can this not crack open our hearts in love?
OK, I work in this general territory, so I guess I had to drag out a soapbox. Stepping down now.
The bicycle is the most civilized conveyance known to man. Other forms of transport grow daily more nightmarish. Only the bicycle remains pure in heart. ~Iris Murdoch, The Red and the Green