If you are use to a bike where you sit up more and are switching to a road bike, then it will probably feel like you are reaching. I know I felt like I was falling over all the time when I first started riding a road bike, but you have to just keep riding to get use to it. I would definitely call local bike shops and ask if they would check the fit for you. They may be able to suggest switching out parts (like the stem) to fit the bike better to you.
good luck!
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