Originally Posted by
Raygungirl
The fundraising is my biggest concern...I'm not a very good salesperson, and hate asking for money from family and friends...how do you deal with this?
I have not done TNT. I have done other kinds of fundraising, both for charities, and as a job. I know others will have lots of tips on the actual how's of raising the funds. What I would say to you is this:
Start the process of getting to know the people who are affected by ________ (fill in the blank for what you are supporting/fighting for). Start with reading and get a handle on the numbers of people afflicted. Start talking to people who suffer from it. Let your heart get involved. See how much pain is caused by ___________________.
From the moment you gain a deep conviction about the need to eradicate the problem, you cease to be a salesperson focused on your own needs and fears (raising money, fears of rejection or labelling, or irritating people, or whatever yours are), and you become a person with a passion. Once you feel that conviction, and you speak to people straight from your heart about the need, you will not want to stop until you have asked everyone you know, and many you don't yet know, to support the cause.
My experience is that when I am feeling nervous about asking for support, I am forgetting that for me, it is a fundraiser, but for the people affected by the disease (or other issue), it is life or death, or quality of life. And, it is also my experience that when I ask for support from a place of honest passion and conviction, even when people turn me down, they do it from their own place of honesty, and I don't then take it personally (and they seem to feel more comfortable with me).
I hope this helps. I know that it can be difficult to ask family, friends and strangers for money. For me, it becomes much, much easier...and even fun and rewarding...when I keep in front of me the true need that is really behind it all.
Hope that doesn't sound preachy. I know it can be intimidating. But, it is worth it. Good luck!
"The best rides are the ones where you bite off much more than you can chew, and live through it." ~ Doug Bradbury