Hi! Just wanted to let you know that a couple of years ago, when I began riding, I found that I would get a numbness in my hands after a lond ride. I found that good quality gloves were a big help, as they have pads where the nerves are, and this helps alot. I also found that I was putting a lot of pressure and weight on my arms. NOw I let my back take the weight, and I have a light grip on my handle bars. I learned that in my spinning class. I really try to focus on pushing with my legs, and not pulling on my arms, which lets them sit lightly on the bars for a lot of my ride.
I like the Cannondale gloves, they are men's, but they are comfy.
Good luck, hope this helps!
Rhonda