
 Originally Posted by 
Catrin
					
				 
				There actually isn't any place to pull over, not really. The one intersection that intimidates me the most actually does have a bike lane - and the only thing to the right of THAT is a turning lane, so I just stay where I am. For the other few lights I deal with I can see them far enough away that I can finesse it - slow down enough so that it is green when I get there, that sort of thing.
I think much of this is simply due to not really having to deal with lights, or really stopping at all. Even on my 50-70 mile routes from last summer, the vast majority of them have no more than 2 stop lights (if that many), and not many more stop-signs. You know, I just realized that...
			
		 
	 
 I'm assuming the light bulb moment you just had is that the vast majority of your rides don't provide much of an opportunity for you to practice stopping and starting and that works, in some respects, to your detriment in terms of improving your handling skills.
I'm going to stick with my previous advice.  Stopping and starting is a skill you should work on and feel confident about.  If your current routes don't require much stopping, then go to a parking lot and practice.  Ideally, though, put yourself in some real-world situations.  In my experience, there are areas of Boone County and western Hamilton County that provide a good mix of true country roads and "city-lite" streets that aren't not terribly busy that do you require you to stop for lights and stop signs.  And challenge yourself not to "finesse" your approach to red lights.
				
			 
			
		 
			
				
			
			
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