I bought men's mountain bike shorts since they fit the best out of my choices last year. They have a mesh undergarment with the chamois.

Went to my LBS about a saddle. I came back home and realized the saddle wasn't going to fit on the seat post. Sigh. I took both bikes up and the mechanic fiddled with the saddle. He realized that all I was doing was sitting on the nose of the saddle. I suggested a smaller stem and he agreed. He dug one up in the back and put it on. Much better as I was more upright but still on the nose.

He rummaged around some more and came up with an adjustable stem that let me put the bar up/down where I needed. It pushed me back up onto the back of the saddle.

Soo..for a test ride when I got home. I like being more upright, but I'm still sitting on the nose and I think the saddle is too wide in the back as I can feel my hips rocking and I still feel like I have to go to the bathroom.

Yay for the stem solution. Nay for this saddle.

As we talked about my Fargo, it almost seems too small (Mukluk was the one we fiddled with) so I must be between Salsa's sizes.

Any suggestions for a specific sizing of a saddle? I can't find the cardboard that has the saddle I purchased but I think it was the Commuter Gel CRZ+. It's either 180 or 190 mm from Bontrager's site.

With a little more fiddling, hopefully I can get more comfortable.