Thanks, ladies. I wrote the brief email thanking her for the bookstore info and wishing them well. It probably seemed a bit terse, but it should give her the message. It's too bad, but I realized that if we did go along with lunch or anything else furthering the friendship, it would be because I was too wimpy to stand up for what I believe in. And I have done that far too many times in my life to date. If things were different, I'd love to be her friend, but that's just not going to happen now.