Deanna, good suggestion "visual cues that tell them you are stopping--unclip at least one of your feet, if nessary, put it on the ground, take a drink of water, blow your nose etc."

or read the paper and talk on the cell phone like they are doing

the other thing I do is when aproaching an intersection with a green light for me, even if I'm slowing, scanning trafic because just cuz they have a red light does not mean they will stop I keep pedaling in hopes (mind control) that drivers will see me as "going".

If you slow and stop pedaling, they think "stopping".

But I've been stopped, at a red, in the correct lane for that, hands at my sides, foot on the ground and had drivers do the "shrug shoulders exasperated hands up WTF are you doing going or not going?" expression.