I am on this quest too

I saw a very nice pair of Gore gloves and didn't buy them because they where only black and white - so maybe they are for you

On the Gore homepage I can only see those:
http://www.gorebikewear.com/remote/S...1208436857364O

In the store they also had a pair of simple black ones with very little white detailing on the knuckles. They fit well and had good ventilation.

I also tried some pairs of Specialized but I can't remember if they had them in darker colors - I just remember baby-blue ones.

I liked a lot of the Fox models but they had no padding whatsoever and I'm not sure if I could get along with this. They had a quite small mens-glove in black and white too (the womens versions where all pink or white).