Thanks for everyone's input and well wishes. I think we'll figure it out; I was just sort of overwhelmed yesterday with options. Who knew not having a traditional wedding could be so complicated. I'm feeling better about it today.

Thankfully, we're totally comfortable with the idea of eloping. I don't think either of us has given serious consideration to having a traditonal wedding--big or small. I'm totally relieved that BF's family (he's close to his parents, unlike me) don't object to an elopement. Things would be sticky if they did. My parents long ago gave me the blessing to elope, which is surprising given some of their statements about my siblings' non-Catholic weddings. So, it really is just up to us, which is nice.

I'll keep you posted!