I don't get it....why not all of you go to a restaurant for the Christmas meal , prebook place days in advance with people rvsping and everyone pays for their own dish. Just get a restaurant that has a web menu online for people to ponder over dishes in advance.

That's what we do where we are....and the majority of employees are men. Yes I work at a construction engineering firm...it's large enough, that I don't know all the guys and other employees.

Snapdragon's idea works well also where we are.