I still think this is where I am heading - hot flushes during the night sometimes - last month I had only 3 weeks between periods - that hasn't happened since I was a teenager! (Even after babies, my period began in regular 30 day cycles).

I am glad you have the reassurance of being able to talk with women here, Dogmama. I am glad you recognise patterns in your family and are aware of your own feelings.

The hippy in me (even though I was BORN in the 60s, so was a flower-bubba, rather than a flower-child) really wants to get through this part of my life medically unassisted. But like you, if needs must, then I will try what I need to if I have to. Ultimately, we still want to enjoy every day. Take care of yourself - this too will pass.