I'm always reminded of the movie High Fidelity where John Cusack's character looks up old girlfriends to find out why they left him.

I've had two old boyfriends look me up in the past couple years. Both are married. I think it's an age thing - they hit forty, forty one, and it's like, *BING* time to look up lost loves. It makes me very uncomfortable every time I get an email from one of them. I try to keep it short and sweet in reply, but, they often don't "get" it and keep emailing. I do not want an email relationship with someone I dated 20 years ago. There was a reason we broke up. And yes, I am happily married, now, thanks.

This seems kind of *****y, doesn't it.

But I mean, think about what their wives would think if they knew they were looking up their old girlfriend???