Biker Hen, getting to know you thread is at the top of the open topic forum.
Both Dirt Girl and I are in Spokane too. As for "old" mountain bikers... almost everyone I ride with ( excepting dirt girl
) is over 40. You don't have to get big air. I try and keep my wheels on the ground most of the time.
DG is real active with the Mountaineers riding group, and I'm on the board of the new mountain bike club, www.fttrc.org. There's also the WOW group, http://www.northdivision.com/wow.html which is primarily road riders of all abilities. Lots of choices.
see ya around
Irulan
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