My best buddy actually goes to the Hallmark store, picks out individual cards and mails them out (after adding a little message) to his friends and family. How many guys you know do that? I alway praise him alot for his effort and thoughtfulness. I actually have 3 male friends who send out cards each year. Each is in his 40's and unmarried. Mmmmmmm, should I be worried?

PS: That good buddy also, for my Christmas present, spent who knows how many hours, cleaning and shining up my MTBike. It's nicer looking now than when I bought it. He didn't spend a dime and I couldn't have gotten a nicer persent! What a sweetie (in that platonic I love you like a brother way).