Wow, I am not particularly "romantic," and our gifts have never been more than a delivery of a bunch of chocolate chip cookies or a sweater, I still love the idea of paying a little extra attention to the idea of love. We don't "need" to get each other anything and mostly, in the past years we haven't, because as opposed to when we were younger, we pretty much get stuff whenever we want it. For me, it's more about a special meal and the acknowledgment of our relationship. And, the quest as to which one of us can find the funniest card.