Quote Originally Posted by kenyonchris View Post
I made myself sick over this last night. I felt horrible that I was going out with guy #2. And he is a nice, sweet guy. Kind of a dork, as opposed to guy #1s total coolness in all situations. I just don't want to hurt guy #1. I had thought I would be OK with just what he could give me, no more. But I don't know that that's right.
Sigh. I got about 3 hours sleep last night.
But I don't think you're hurting guy #1. He's been brutually honest with you. It is what it is. It's very black and white to me with that guy and what he's saying. There's no hidden message behind it. I know. I've been through this too. If you feel something is bothering you with him, trust your feeling.

I don't think you're hurting guy #1 at all. You're honest with him. He just want to hang out once a week. So why do you think you're hurting him?

Give #2 a chance. When you're with him, just have fun. Enjoy your time with him. It will be healthy for you to see what else is out there.

Good luck!