Thanks everybody for your advice!

I am going through a stressful time myself (job interviews, financial issues - BF and I had actually planned to get married next year, but now we are moving it up another year because of all the unexpected expenses around here). So in a way, I don't mind being dragged along to all these appointments, because I can keep in mind what to look out for and which questions to ask. But then again, BF works in catering & event services, so I have somebody who knows the ins and outs of weddings and how much things should cost, what to expect etc.

She is expecting me to cancel training/races/events that I have coming up in the future, that I registered for BEFORE she got engaged, and I just don't think it is right. Sure, if I were the MOH, I would understand and try to accommodate, but i'm not...and I don't feel like acting like one when i'm not.

She already had these kind of arrogant tendencies before, but I knew to ignore them. But now, they are coming out tenfold and she's managed to hurt one of our close friends already. (The girl is a bit overweight, but by no means obese, yet she called her an obese cow, hence she can't be a bridesmaid).

Got another "fun-filled" day with her today. I'm going to ask her why the MOH isn't around. And remind her that this is supposed to be a fun process, because she has the help of friends, who are there to stress out with her.

Thanks all!