Mr. S, as you know from some of my previous posts, I have had several years of experience working with the older population. I have seen this issue happen too many times to count. It is a very hard decision to make and not an easy conversation to have. However, it is actually easier to have this conversation done before something happens. I say this because when, and if a crisis does happen it is hard to make decisions with a clear mind and you may feel rushed and get very frustrated. I only say this with what information I have from your current situation. I do not know what is going on with your parents medically, including declining cognition (if it is). I know you will make it through this rough time as you are a very strong person. Just know that I hope you can find your strength to do what you feel is best for you and your family. My thoughts are with you.