Thankfully (in a way) I no longer work (out on disability) so I can live in jeans (28W34L), cowboy boots, men's small t-shirts, sweats, shorts and Tevas. In the fall I add a sweater and a leather jacket... winter brings out the parka. No fashion issues anymore.

With the cycling its boy gear all the way... except for the shoes, which I buy to fit the bigger foot (right 6.5) then have the cleat adjusted on the small foot (left 5.5) to pedal without pain.

When I ran, I actually bought 2 prs of shoes in the 2 sizes (VERY expensive) and donated the big left and the small right to a place that made prosthetic legs.