Last year I switched to a Specialized Jett saddle which has completely eliminated any chafing issues. I still, however, have swelling issues and that bruised feeling and I think the reason is I sit too much on my pelvic bones and not my sit bones.
What needs to change to correct this? Higher handlebars so I'm not rocked forward/down? Tilting the saddle? Moving the saddle forward or backwards?

(My typical rides are 30-50 miles at 18+ mph)

Thanks!