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11-21-2006, 09:18 AM
BleeckerSt_Girl

CWR, I'm so glad you are able to try to work through this difficult time with your bf. Relationships can be hard to keep healthy and growing. Takes a lot of work. Even if it doesn't work out in the end, the work you are putting into it now will make you a better, stronger, wiser, more loving and more resilient person. Good going, friend!
11-21-2006, 09:19 AM
chickwhorips

oh and kit, i'm working on that. i lost my cc somewhere between anchorage and here. really need to find it, seeing i have no cash. cash? what's cash? :eek:
11-21-2006, 09:20 AM
mimitabby

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Originally Posted by chickwhorips

T I - Double G-ER!

update on me: the hard time for lise and mimi that missed it was i broke up with my bf because of certain circumstances. i even went as far to move all my stuff out. well long story short, i moved back in after we talked a lot. things are on shakey ground now, but we'll see where this path leads us. only time will tell. i am still having a rough time with everything, but after having "me time" last night and sitting quietly and thinking about everything i feel like i have made the correct decision. still its hard. its my first "real" relationship where i've loved with my heart and not my mind.

now enough about me (considering it isn't to happy) what about this newbie that's laying her heart out? why do i always miss everything? :confused:

well, remember, a relationship only works if both people are really committed.
Just because you love with all your heart and mind doesn't mean the other person will do that. the cardinal rule: screw me once shame on you.
screw me twice, shame on me.
PS Just reallized i gave unasked for advice. I'm sorry, the mother in me just pops in all the time!

and about sad ranger, just do a search on that person's posts. they are still available for you to read.
11-21-2006, 09:23 AM
Xrayted

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Originally Posted by Lisa S.H.

Her intro was very cursory and no real bike info to speak of. I don't think she is much interested in biking. :cool:

Now who wouldn't be interested in biking? The idea of it...

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Originally Posted by Lisa S.H.

CWR, I'm so glad you are able to try to work through this difficult time with your bf. Relationships can be hard to keep healthy and growing. Takes a lot of work. Even if it doesn't work out in the end, the work you are putting into it now will make you a better, stronger, wiser, more loving and more resilient person. Good going, friend!

Very well said.
11-21-2006, 09:37 AM
chickwhorips

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Originally Posted by mimitabby

well, remember, a relationship only works if both people are really committed.
Just because you love with all your heart and mind doesn't mean the other person will do that. the cardinal rule: screw me once shame on you.
screw me twice, shame on me.
PS Just reallized i gave unasked for advice. I'm sorry, the mother in me just pops in all the time!

yes i know this and this is what i need to figure out. if i'm the only one in it or not.
i believe in those rules too. and the advice was fine. i need someone to give me motherly advice now and again, thankfully here i get the sisterly advice that i need too.

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Originally Posted by mimitabby

and about sad ranger, just do a search on that person's posts. they are still available for you to read.

after lisa mentioned her name i looked it up. interesting. thats about all i can say. at least i posted a few times before i brought mine up. :) and i didn't start a whole thread on it....
11-21-2006, 09:40 AM
mimitabby

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Originally Posted by chickwhorips

after lisa mentioned her name i looked it up. interesting. thats about all i can say. at least i posted a few times before i brought mine up. :) and i didn't start a whole thread on it....

and you didn't make your name reflect your problem of the day!
11-21-2006, 09:40 AM
snapdragen

Some people react to pain in different ways. I always give new posters the benefit of the doubt.
11-21-2006, 09:43 AM
chickwhorips

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Originally Posted by snapdragen

Some people react to pain in different ways. I always give new posters the benefit of the doubt.

good thing too otherwise kit, X and i would be in big trouble!!!!
11-21-2006, 10:02 AM
Bikingmomof3

Kit-I hope the commute becomes easier for you. I do not know if I could do it. To work, sure, but after when I am tired and it is dark?

Dar-vent away and hold your ground on the Thanksgiving party.

Lise-it will work out, but I do understand your frustration. You and J will have a blast in Italy.

X-cute garage door guy is here and should be here for hours. All you PA girls should be able to get here in time to meet him. ;) Thanks for the well wishes for today. There is still hope for today.

(((((CWR))))))-you know, no need to say a thing. :) I sent Buckeyes so you could get protein from the peanut butter. ;)

KG-congrats on getting the report cards finished.

DD-It is good to have you back.

Kit, CWR,and X-what sketches? I missed something, again.

Oooops, the garage door guy needs something. Be back later.
11-21-2006, 10:31 AM
mtbdarby

BMo3- send him my way! Or at least sneak a picture. Tell him it's of the garage door;)

Kit - good for you on commuting yesterday. Just start off with a couple times a week and work your way up from there.

X - I'm loving the animation girl!

Some drama in the workplace today. Some people take things way too personally. For a shop, we have a lot of very sensitive men! Our sales guy got one of them all riled up (it wasn't intentional) and he walked out. And they think we're the emotional ones:cool:
11-21-2006, 10:46 AM
chickwhorips

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Originally Posted by Bikingmomof3

I sent Buckeyes so you could get protein from the peanut butter. ;)

thanks for reminding me. time for my mid-morning snack! :D

one of my co-workers just walked up and saw them on my desk and gasped! he knew exactly what they were. very jealous, so i had to share. ;)
11-21-2006, 10:56 AM
Lise

(((CWR))) Often I've wished I could preview the transcript of a relationship! Good luck. Tough choices, which may seem much clearer in retrospect. My bit of sisterly advice: If you find yourself arguing with or denying your "gut" or inner voice, stop and listen. Inside, you will know what's right for you. L.
11-21-2006, 12:34 PM
Bikingmomof3

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Originally Posted by mtbdarby

BMo3- send him my way! Or at least sneak a picture. Tell him it's of the garage door;)

I could aalways be pretending to photo the great outdoors. ;)

Quote:

Originally Posted by mtbdarby

Some drama in the workplace today. Some people take things way too personally. For a shop, we have a lot of very sensitive men! Our sales guy got one of them all riled up (it wasn't intentional) and he walked out. And they think we're the emotional ones:cool:

Ha. Nothing like some good drama to make work go by quickly. :)
11-21-2006, 12:35 PM
Bikingmomof3

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Originally Posted by chickwhorips

thanks for reminding me. time for my mid-morning snack! :D

one of my co-workers just walked up and saw them on my desk and gasped! he knew exactly what they were. very jealous, so i had to share. ;)

You were extremely generous to share. In this house it is everyone for themselves when it comes to buckeyes. ;)
11-21-2006, 01:46 PM
Xrayted

Hey, BMo3 - I can't get out of here for a few hours yet. Go through and unscrew every other bolt on the door to keep him there longer. Make him brownies, invite him to dinner, whatever... :p

CWR - what makes you think we aren't in trouble? Kit alone puts us over our allowed group rate.

What the heck is a buckeye anyway?? I'm missing out on goodies and I don't like it. I don't like it one bit.

Can ya tell it just got slooooooooow here? I need to go get some food at the caf while I have a chance.
I'm so hungry for homemade french onion soup lately too. I'm thinking I might have to make up a batch tonight when I get home. Mmmmmm. Topped with gruyere and just a hint of mozzarella. Hey, anybody want a crock?

Off to see Linda and the ladies in the caf. They take good care of me. Well, somebody's gotta right?