Originally Posted by Duck on Wheels
Thought I'd let the medical experts among us weigh in on this one first, but since they've been quiet I'll put my 2c in: I have never heard anything about not flying in the first trimester, only about not flying the last month (which is probably because the crew don't want the stress of an in-flight delivery, or the clean-up job on the seat after). What I have heard is that maybe as many as 75% of conceptions end in a first trimester spontaneous abortion, often before you even know about them. I've had two I'm pretty sure of, but also two gorgeous kids I'm absolutely sure of. :)
I also know that all those tricks we were told could help us abort if we needed it, back in the Stone(hearted) Age when only the rich could get safe abortions ... they don't work. There is basically nothing you can do to abort a fetus that's meant to stay, short of just about killing yourself or getting an out and out abortion. Jumping off chairs? Hot and cold baths? Enemas? Flying in planes? Fohgeddaboutit.
You were fit. You did nothing that would endanger your own life or that of the fetus. I know guilt feelings know no logic, but if it is within your power to lay them behind you, go ahead and do so. With all of our blessings.