choosing and getting into college
Help! My nephew, who is a junior in high school, just sent me an email asking for help in choosing and applying to colleges. Most of what I know on this topic I learned back in the 80s, so I don't know how things have changed since then and what has stayed the same.
I can start with basic questions he needs to think about, like what subjects interest him/what he might want to major in, as well as environment questions like small school vs. big, urban vs. middle o'nowhere, etc.
If anyone has any advice or experience in this process that is more recent than mine, I'd appreciate it. Also, he lives in NY but is interested in the DC/NoVa/Baltimore area, so I might wind up asking you mid-Atlantic ladies for input at some point.
Thanks!
Worry about the major later ;)
Graduated undergrad in 2007 ;)
I went to a public high school and graduated 8th in my class of 280 people :) I was very academic in high school and was not prepared for the lifestyle change of college and thus applied to many academic-oriented schools.
I did most of my own research on schools to find something that I might like based on things I knew I wanted (e.g. most of staff having PhDs, relatively small school, strengths in scientific fields, etc). I applied to 5-8 colleges and universities and got into them all which didn't help me narrow down the choices :p
I visited the 3-4 schools in which I was most interested. After being on individually guided campus tours, I fell in love with a small private college in New York (I am from Michigan). Out-of-state tuition would have amounted to over $100,000 in loans once I graduated! :eek:
Oh yes, I also highly recommend sitting in on a class covering a topic in an area which the prospective students finds interesting.
Luckily, my parents talked me out of that school, if not for the financial details alone.
I ended up accepting my admittance to the school my parents forced me to apply to because it was in-state: the University of Michigan. I had a wonderful experience and never regretted it! I met so many great, funny, smart people like me! :D (Note: I did not relate to many of my high school chums, especially on an academic level). I also discovered many types of people which I did not care for (airheads, jerks, etc) but I could easily avoid them and seek out people whose company I greatly enjoyed. Plus, I was feeling smothered in high school, needing my independence and I didn't realize how nice it would be to attend school relatively close to home! :)--but my parents did ;)
I consider myself very independent and pursue goals on my own very well so U of M was a great environment for me because I could obtain everything I wanted out of my academics because the university had so many resources to offer!
I have since realized that while I may have been happy at the small, private college, I would have regretted the loan amount (especially with the economy slowing down now!) and I'm sure many of the people attending would have been from much wealthier families (old money and such; having their futures ensured by inheritance). I felt privileged because I was obtaining the education of which some of my out-of-state peers were paying what I did not want to pay for the small private college in New York :)
I noted that I enjoyed very much socializing with my peers of the same approximate socio-economic status but with much diversity in religion, race, culture and perspectives :) I liked that we could talk about student loans freely, without embarrassment or judgment.
Now I'm considering graduate school but have no idea where to begin my search... :p