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I'm another one who just came upon this thread - hoping you are all right. I can't even begin to fathom what you are going through.
Life is scary in that way. One moment everything is going peachy and the next we are lying on the ground all broken up. Here in Boise a few months ago a woman was stopped on her bike in the bike lane waiting for a red light when someone in a Hummer came up behind her and killed her. No matter how safely we are riding, there will always be those moments.
And yet - those things can happen at home too. One day a bunch of ambulances went screaming past our house and stopped a few houses down the road. A little while later they left quietly. I found out the next day that their 6-year-old boy slipped in the bathtub, hit his head, and died.
I guess the moral of the story is that we need to get out and live life - and that's exactly what you did and are doing. Good for you! I truly hope that you can get back on your bike at some point, but if not - then simply live life to the fullest in some other manner.
I pray that this year will be a good one for you and that you get up and moving quickly!!
Nancy
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If you want to write to her, PM me and I'll send you her snail mail address.
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Dawn, are you up and around more? I think of you often and hope you are doing better each day.
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Checking in
Hello TE Sisters!
After a bit of a hiatus, I came back to visit and found such kind words from you all. It has continued to be a journey, and I cannot say it has be easy. On a good note, Brodie is still with me and not in any apparent pain. This time has been a gift to me in that. She remains a gentle healing spirit.
I am walking with only a limp, cane free, and only get cramping at night in my legs and lower back. My forearm bones are close to fusing but no pushups yet. :) I am hoping to return to work very soon.
The test has continued, though, as well.
A close friend of mine lost her battle with cancer 12-30-07. When we buried her, all 8 pallbearers were her female friends. Her funeral was one of the most emotional experiences I have had. She touched so many people's lives.
My partner of 3 years and I ended our relationship. We are planning the sale of our home, and I am deciding whether to stay in this area or move out west.
This has been a hard time, but I am learning to live in my own skin. It is amazing how much you learn about yourself in a hospital bed and lazy boy for a few months. I generally have about 1-2 hours a day with people and then the rest of the time alone. I was a person who could tolerate about 1-2 hours alone per day. My mind no longer races to "next." "Now" is enough. Sadness, pain, happiness, fear, security, or relief are all acceptable.
This gathering of women in TE has been more support than I could have ever dreamed. I have a humongous collection of cards from all of you and the care packages added a good 20 lbs on me. Who would have thought that a little thread I found on a google search for size 41.5 sidi dominators would be a major factor in my recovery from such a trauma? Thank you all for your ongoing energies, prayers, and love. I hope some day I can return even a portion of what you have given. Till next update... Dawn :)
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Thank you for the update! Despite the challenges you face, you sound so peaceful and accepting. I'm glad I'm still sending butterflies!! And I"m so happy you have Brodie at your side.
Follow your heart, you'll know what the next right move for you is. In the meantime, post, PM, email, stay in touch and let us continue to give you share the same support we all benefit from.
Big hugs and uplifting butterflies,
~T~
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Hey, Dawn! I've been thinking about you. ((((Dawn))))
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Dawn, good to hear that forward progress is being made. You are in our thoughts. (((( Dawn ))))
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Oh Dawn you sound like you are doing REALLY WELL!
I am so glad. Thanks for keeping in touch, and I am sorry about the loss of your friend. You sound like you've learned more about yourself this last year than most people ever learn.
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Dawn!!! ((((Dawn)))
Great to hear you're healing well :) I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your friend & moving on from your other half.
Take care & remember to be good to yourself :).
You're a strong woman
C
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Just gonna add my voice to those shouting your name!
DAWN!!!
So good to read your words
Keep moving forward in grace
Arohanui
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{{{{Dawn&Brodie}}}} Thank you for taking the time to update your TE friends. Your recovery and strength to take each step have been encouraging. I am sorry that so much has happened to you recently. It seems we seldom are given one trial in our life at a time, but get challenged with many. One day at a time is all we can ever hope to overcome.
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Dawn, it was so nice to hear from you. :) I believe Brodie will not leave your side until her work is done. I have always felt angels come in many forms. May you continue to feel strengthened with the promise of a new day.
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What a crazy few months it has been for you. Your experiences show that you never know what life has in store, and you have to live in each moment and try not to obssess over the future. That is something I need to work on. I have been silent so far on this thread but I have been lurking on it for months. I'm glad to hear you are recovering well, and I wish you good luck and continued strength.
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Thanks for the update..you sure have had a bit of misfortune in your life it seems. I am glad that you are improving daily and that you are, in a good sense, in good spirits still. HOpe things work out for the best and good luck with all that you are going to endure. Best wishes.
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Good to hear from you! Being happy in your own skin is something some folks can never do, glad you made it.
Please PM me with your snail mail addy (I lost it :( )... I have sumting for ewe. Be afraid, be berry berry afraid. But it won't bite and doesn't need feeding.
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Well,
I just joined the thread and I am so glad that you are doing well. You have put my whining about my injuries in perspective and I will shut up now and just get better.
I was seriously ill afew years ago and spent about 4 months alone healing. My husband was at work from 6 am to about 8 pm every day. I learned a great deal about myself by being home alone in my own skin. I was never the same after. All cahnges for the better.
I hope the rest of your journey is not painful, and that you heal well. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
need any good books?
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Good to hear from you, invsblwmn. You really got it all, didn't you. It sounds rough. I have the feeling that some time, maybe 5 years down the road, you'll be looking back and seeing that a whole lot of things changed right about now, and that the final result was better, in the end. Change hurts though, sometimes it hurts like crazy. Hang in there.
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I just saw this thread as well - you have come so far, Dawn. I am so impressed with your recovery to date!
Your dog and cat are beautiful. Brodie's story is amazing - she's been a lucky girl to have you. Glad she's still doing well.
Take care of yourself.
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Yay Dawn! Thanks for the update and letting us know how you are. I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your friend, but comforted by the show of love that you witnessed at the funeral. I'm sure that was healing for everyone at the service.
With everything that is going on in your life, it sounds like you're going through a major time of transition. At first glance, it could be easy to see this as a challenging time and perhaps even one of loss. But, that's not how I see it. Rather, I am excited for you.
The greatest transitions are born from the most challenging of times. They are hidden blessings and it is up to us to pull the immense beauty that lies within these times. What a fantastic opportunity to get to know yourself, to trust your body and be amazed at its healing and determination. And what a gift to learn how to live in the moment, to be forced to let go of the anxious state you once lived in - being in the 'now' is always enough. You'd be amazed at how many people wish (on a regular basis) that they could start new - but they're trapped by responsibilities, fears, anxieties. Here you are, with an incredible opportunity to start new - to move, or stay...to get a new job...to heal and shape your body from scratch. It's almost like a spiritual re-birth and to me, that's good stuff.
Change is always a gift. It is not always pleasant and fun, but it is always a gift. I hope you continue on this path of healing and adventure - go seek what you want most and create your own destiny. Sounds like the universe had a big message to send you - with the accident and forced lazy-boy-bonding, and also with the end of your relationship. Trust your inner voice, it always knows the answer.
May all the love and support that has surrounded your healing continue to embrace your spirit as you start anew. Only good things await you.
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You are so right. I was a therapist for 14 years. Always told people that "We don't change until we have to change." Still sticking to that philosophy. It is like the birth of transformation now. I have so much still to learn from all this. For now, it is time to listen, slow down, and be open. Thank you all for your encouragement.
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8 Months and 19 days later, I GOT TO RIDE!!!!!!!!!!!!! What else needs to be said? :D
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I think that is pretty amazing, considering how badly you were injured.
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!
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YAY!!! I am so happy to hear this!!
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yay!!
So excited for you and proud! You are one tough cookie and are definitaly someone to look up to.
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Tell us more!!!! How did it feel?
So glad to hear you're back on wheels! Good for you! You made me day!
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Yay!!! I'm so excited for you!!! Congratulations!!! How's the new trike?
CA
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Fantastic news invsblwmn :) :) :)
We wanna see you on your trike!
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Hooray! That's wonderful!
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It's great to hear that you're well enough to be riding again.
I bet that first ride felt awesome!
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Yipppppppppeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!
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That's GREAT!!!!
I am very happy to hear that you are back to riding. Awesome!:D:D:D
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FANTASTIC.... you must feel SO good. What an accomplishment so far!
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What wonderful news!
I'll never forget my first ride after fracturing my pelvis in a cycling accident and being laid up for several months. I was back on the bike three months later, very wobbly, slow, and nervous, but I did it. I was so damn proud, and you should be too. Congratulations! May you have many more safe and wonderful rides!
Emily
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I am so happy for you to be back on the bike!! That is major achievment in itself. I hope that you enjoyed your return to freedom and the wind blowing through your hair!
May you continue to have succesful and fun trips.
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Wonderful news!!! and welcome back!!!
smilingcat
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WAHOOOOOOOOEYYYYY!!!!!!! :D :) :cool:
Isn't it wonderful to be back out dere!!! YYYYYahooooooowwweeeyeyey
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invsblwmn, welcome back to the road.:cool::D Your determination, bravery, strength, and patience is admirable.
