long, not happy either way
My hair is between my shoulders and my bra strap. It's layered, but still long enough to get in a pony tail.
What I've changed recently is going from wearing bangs (for over 20 years) to not wearing bangs--or they're really long so they go back behind my ears. I don't know if they're technically still bangs. But if I let them grow to the same length as the rest I'd look like a hippie chick from the '70s (which is just how I wore my hair in the '70s). It's not attractive on me without the long bangs. Makes my face look too round, as do short bangs as I've gotten older. I should just come out and admit to myself that my face is quite round! lol.
As I've gone past 40, and closer to 50, my formerly straight hair is getting curlier and curlier. Not curly enough to *wear* curly, and only in the BACK. bah! So I have a straight iron. It's been too hot to wear my hair down for about 3 weeks now--can't remember if I like my haircut or not.
So the pony tail goes in below the helmet, and then I take a couple of extra bands and put them an inch and half apart down the pony tail to keep it from splaying on my neck and back when I ride. It doesn't look too attractive with some of the ends sticking out, but neither does the mixed up ponytail.
Karen