When I first started a year ago, I rode alone because I knew no other female riders (or male ones for that matter). I felt I would've been too new, slow, etc. After riding alone for a year, I still love to do some of my rides solo. The ability to know that I don't have to wait on others' schedules, excuses, fitness level, etc, gave me a lot of flexibility on where and when to ride. I improved a lot on my own as well, gaining confidence on my bike, on the road to handle idiots, cars, dogs, etc. Without those solo rides, I don't think I would've been as confident about riding today as I am.
I then showed up at a predominantly guys' ride this early spring and challenged myself to hold on, with the hope of meeting other like-minded riders. So after riding with them for a great season, I've improved so much and have fallen even more in love with the sport. Drafting, group riding skills, and a sense of watching out for each other, plus a few laughs has only enhanced my riding experiences. Group rides have introduced me to new friends and new routes.
I only ride with the group once a week with the rest of my rides on my own. I think everyone should try both if the opportunity exists. Both give you a unique experience and I wouldn't say one is better than the other one.
