You know we can all get upset about this that and the other but the bottom line is" ARE YOU HAPPY "? And if not then try and do your best and try to do someting about it. My mom had to work out to build muscles to look bigger then she was. it took a lot of effort on her part. Yet i have to exercise to maintain. And I could loose 5 or 10 but if I don't? Oh well I still think I look pretty good for 37 year old hard working women. I just try and that counts for a lot! Besides my husband still like my body and that really counts for a lot after 19 years. And he saw me at my prime. Things have changed a bit. lol
