FWIW: I work for a personal injury attorney and over the years I have know many many people, including one of the attorneys in the office, who have had neck surgery for osteophytes and/or bulging discs. They almost all have had excellent outcomes and were glad they had the surgery. (I can only think of one person who said she didn't feel the surgery helped much.)
I am not saying this to try to convince you to have a surgery you don't want. Only you can make that decision, but rather, I just wanted to give you some anecdotal data to help you make an informed decision.
Surgery is scary, and shouldn't be taken lightly, but it also isn't the worst thing in the world, and can really help, if you are want it.