So racermom, how did the race go? :)
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So racermom, how did the race go? :)
I hated tampons when I was younger. They were extremely painful. I avoided using them at all costs. Now that I'm older, and much more active, I've found ways to deal with them, but I still detest them, but I have ridden in pads before - um.. no thanks!!! owwie owwie...
Though, the shorts camois is a better emergency sopper than I was expecting. Even when it is full :eek: :o , the lycra seems to hold it in, and not leave trails behind you when you sit down :eek:
You know.. I'm glad to have a ladies only site! I've embarrassed a couple guy friends with some things I bring up. Sheesh, a gal's gotta talk about stuff.
yesterday after the ride we stopped at another rider's house. A nice lady who is past all this nonsense. She and her - well, I'm not decided, either a roommate, or S.O., drove me and my friend to lunch after an afternoon of fiddling on her computer. However, I was out longer than I was preparred for. We were in 2 cars, and Ann and I stopped at walgreens for an emergency run. apparently they contacted each other by cell phone. Sandy wanted to know what Ann was doing. Mike, my friend, told her it was a feminine products thing. Sandy's reaction was "She's too old for that!!!"
Racermom, How did the race go? What did you end up doing? Were you and your daughter satisfied with the result?
I agree with much of what has been said:
The chamois absorbs alot. A first period is likely to be quite light making the chamois enough. Tampons are a perfectly acceptable hygeine product for a girl of 11. I never wore a pad in my life. Started right off with tampons. Then when the knowledgable women of TE introduced the diva to me I switched. Diva would not be a sensible choice for an 11 year old. (at least not for the usual 11 year old.)
Hope it all worked out.
As a women with a extreme tipped uterus, tampons have been taboo for me from the begining, the few times i tried I could pop that sucker out in 15 minutes flat...no kidding ..without some kind of pants on, I bet I could shoot that thing out 10 feet.I would move and it just came out..I tried short, long paper, plastic..at 46 years old, i have seen all sorts and everytime just hoping one would work. Even my ob told me she could see where it would not work on me. :eek:
Periods are gross period but I have found that if i put the pad right on the bike shorts and they are the ultra thin, it really is not so bad. When I stop to go to a bathroom they pack very nicely in the camelback or the tour pack. I also bring wipes and pooff I feel normal again.
Before I bought bike shorts and I would spin at the gym, I started when I had my period and found that the pading was kinda like the bike shorts..i used the thicker ones for 2 months to see if I really liked the class and the class led to the shorts and shoes and the shorts and shoes led to the bike etc etc.
Just my 2 cents..
As a Mom of a 5 and 3 year old Daughters and I also Race this is what I would do. I would say yes you should race and nothing should stop you just because you are a girl! Next I would go buy tampon,pads(different Sizes) and different undies with extra padding in the croch area. Of course just her cycling shorts also. I would let her try them all out on the bike of course and let her make her own decision on what feels comfortable because we are all different and we all have different comfort levels. If it's light I think the shorts alone will be fine. The other very important factor is how long is the race/how long will she be on her bike. If it's a short time then your options are better. Give her ALL her options and she will be just fine!
Kim ;)
I've always been of the frame of mind that if I had had daughters, I would honor the first period with a something, a celebration of transition into woman hood. I've read of wonderful modern day ceremonies where a father buys his daugter flowers and takes her out to dinner, or small rituals honoring the transition. For too long in modern culture periods have been treated as something gross, nasty, disgusting ("the curse") instead of a recognition that now you have the power to create life.Quote:
Originally Posted by Trek420
irulan
Irulan, I agree, I've read that some feel that one o' the problems with youth in our culture is there is no ceremony, something marking the tranistion from child to adult. First car doesn't really do it, what does?
I don't like tampons. I do what is decribed above and it works well for me.Quote:
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Wow! Very cool and so positive!Quote:
Originally Posted by Irulan
I wasn't sure I was an adult in my parents' eyes until I was 23 and I surfaced at about 1.30 one Saturday afternoon (I was in one of my living at home again phases) and they both looked up from their lunch and said "Oh, are you here? We thought you hadn't gotten in yet" seeming more surprised that I had been tucked up in my own bed than if I had spent the entire night out. Would have been nice to have a ceremony, but I had to walk to my friend's house to pick up my car... :pQuote:
Originally Posted by Trek420
littleracersmom - hope you weren't offended by our advice - but we certainly all mean well!
Too late for this race - but for future reference: perphaps you are worried about toxic shock syndrome. If that is the case, my advice is to be sure and tell your daughter it is important to change tampons often (every few hours even though the "OB" box says it is ok to leave in up to 8). Also use the "lowest absorbancy" that is appropriate for her. According to OB: TSS is estimated to occur in 1-17 of every 100,000 menstruating women and girls.
The tampon box insert has a list of FAQ. But do consult your doctor with your concerns if that makes you more comfortable.
what about giving your daughter the choice,its her body. ( just make sure she knows how to insert and remove correctly if she chooses tampon)) My daughter started her period at age 11 just before we went on holiday. She chose to use towels then. The year after she chose to use a tampon while we were at at water park (not cycling) and she could not remove it, due to being apprehensive. So traumatic time too. ( I am a midwife/nurse so just helped her) I think this is a very difficult situation for both of you so best of luck
My youngest got her first period on her 13th birthday. As it happened, we'd already planned to dress up and take her out to a nice restaurant where there's a live orchestra and dancing, and that's what we did! I have a beautiful photograph of her from that night and I wouldn't trade anything for our 'double celebration.' :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Irulan
I gave my 2 girls all the supplies they might choose from (well, not the diva yet) and they've managed themselves well. Tampons were a little tricky at first (we sort of went through a box apiece until they were able to do it, but after that I heard no complaints.) The youngest is really tiny so we are always scavening through WalMart for junior size!
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Originally Posted by Irulan
Well said Irulan
With the rise of Judaeo-Christian religions and Islam, the place women amongst the pantheons faded from being the first, to being wives and daughters to being almost nothing... and with it our visibility and "power" has waned.
We should be celebrating our daughters whenever we can - including this time... her first "dark moon"... we have the power to create life... we should celebrate when this power begins...