"Hear Hear!! Yes it SHOULD be, but the reality is sadly quite different. I have 2 young daughters and I am always trying to make sure they know their worth is in their thoughts and actions not their bodies. If anyone knows a surefire way to make sure they believe it, I'm all ears."
I know just how to do this - be the example!!! Be proud of yourself and your body, point out the good things you notice about yourself and how happy you are with them rather than pointing out what you are unhappy with. I have 2 girls - ages 22 and 17. The 17 year old does some modeling. One major agency told her she needed to take 4 inches off of her hips and come back - she decided she would rather be on swimteam, run track and ride her bike. She LIKES the fact that she looks healthy, lean and muscular! She is 5'10" and weighs 154 lbs - lord knows she didn't need to lose weight! I am so proud of her for being proud of herself the way she is. I do point out frequently that the models in magazines are very unhealthy looking. She calls them scrawny fat girls - bony frame, but what they have on it is fat, not healthy muscle.