Probably won't be riding or posting much...

My thoughts join the others here in warm thoughts for you and your family

Arohanui

Sherry, I second everyone saying "take you time, too." When my grandmother stroked and we were taking care of her in our home, some of the most important time we had was the time when she was taking PT and everyone could take a little bit of "us" time. Never underestimate the importance of some time for yourself. Biking might hold you together more than you can ever imagine.

Our older neighbor had a similar-sounding stroke about 18 months ago, her husband was quite frightened about the extent of the damage and she is doing well (ie: I ran in to her at a garage sale and I forgot she had ever had a stroke) It's great that mil's mind & wit are sharp, and that she has such a fantastic support team. You are all in my prayers - & do give yourself some respite. I don't know what does it for you - music helps me - there are some cd's I seem to "save" for crisis management.

Thanks againe everyone for your good wishes and stories of encouragement. I really appreciate them!
As of tonight, things are kind of weird. 'Mom' seems to have quite a bit of movement in her leg, and even the glimmerings of movement in her arm. BUT, she seems to be slipping cognitively. She didn't recognize me or know where she is, and she's sleeping virtually all the time now.
Talked with her doc; he says now it's just a matter of wait-and-see. Things will either improve, or they won't. The waiting is the hardest.
I know I should take some "me" time....go riding, or even a walk on the beach. Just can't summon up the energy to do it. Maybe next week...


Thanks. :)

~Sherry and family.

Ditto what everyone else said, and you just do whatever you can to care for yourself as well as mil and DH. It doesn't have to be cycling, though if you ever can work up the energy for a ride, you may find that it does wonders for your outlook. DH and I have been primary caregivers for both my mom and my dad, at different times, and we found that you have to work just as hard at finding ways to "decompress" yourself as at caregiving. Don't forget to take care of you.

Hoping for a speedy recovery for your mil, and hugs to you.