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What Blueberry said. Your body needs time to recover, but you'll get back to your old form in time.
For as strong and positive as you've been, I have to wonder whether you have processed through perfectly legitimate feelings of fear and sadness, too. Remember that it's okay to feel all that you're going to feel. It's not a sign of weakness or defeat. So have some good cries. My guess is that they'll be cathartic.
I knew you two would be here for me. Thank you.
I think maybe I never felt sad through any of this because it would interfere with treatment, and now that I'm done, the floodgates have opened. I will let myself go through this, too, don't you worry.
One is so focused getting through treatments that the emotional impact often hits once you're through that. The transition from treatment to getting on with your new 'normal' takes some time. The fatigue will pass but I found it took awhile. Hang in there, you've made it this far and stayed really active during, that is a real plus to the overall scheme of things.
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What Indy said. I'm glad you plan to let yourself process this all emotionally.
And I think PTSD is certainly a possibility. If you think you're having that type of symptoms, some guidance might be helpful for you. I had flashbacks for more than a year, and what I went through wasn't even close to what you've just done.
Maybe talking about cancer for so much of the ride (with my well intentioned friend) brought feelings up. I'm just having a well deserved surprise pity party, which I didn't see it coming.
I obviously need new shoes. ;) Doesn't that always make you feel better? Or cake.
How 'bout wearing some new shoes while you eat cake? :D
Or eating cake while shopping for shoes. ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by indysteel
I once read about a guy who went through multiple surgeries for cancer and several rounds of chemo, and a few years later he won a few big bike races. But that first time back on a bike, he damn near fell over he was so tired.
Just take it one day at a time...
This is the time to be doing nice, easy, slow rides. Enjoy the view. I found when I couldn't keep up because of medical issues, I had to let myself "let it go," and focus on different kinds of riding. Eventually "it" came back, when I wasn't really thinking about it. Riding at any speed and walking are two of the best things you can do for yourself during your recovery, because both of them will regulate your emotions.
Wishing you a gentle rain of confetti while you rest up!
Got the shoes. Feel better. Works like a charm. Didn't even need cake.
And yes, I should be and will be riding for pleasure now. I really didn't know I lost so much fitness. I obviously need more time to get back to where I was, and I'm going to let it happen without pressure.
What kind of shoes, pray tell! I want to live vicariously through your shopping.
I got these, in mustard. They were actually waiting for me when I got home (perfect timing). My friend had ordered them for me a few days ago from Amazon, so I new they were coming. She's also my boss, so they're kind of a bonus.
They look really good on, and feel great. They're El Naturalista. She and I are both addicted to the brand, and it's dangerous because we encourage each other in this folly.
Definitely give yourself a break! You will get back to your previous level of fitness. I promise you. But pushing limits this early may result in delays. Revel in your accomplishments, including conquering! (I hate the survivor word, too).Quote:
Originally Posted by redrhodie
And yes, it is normal to feel down after treatment ends. All of a sudden you're sort of thrust back into life away from cancer and after all the time when life revolved around treatment it can be a bit disorienting. It will normalize.
Yeah, I was told that physically it takes as long to recover as you were in rads - in my case 6 weeks. I would agree. Mostly tiredness.
Emotionally - obviously mightily individual.
And not necessarily the same as how you (one) has dealt with and recovered from other crises. I think the rads do something to yr brain function and the tension (trauma?) has an effect too.
Make it up as you go along...I've just been reading Tao so I'm full of going with the flow.
I always talk like the last book I've read :rolleyes: so for what its worth - probly < 2 cents
Thank you ladies, that really helps. I had no idea that it would take that long to recover. It's good to know that it will come back (I am worried about that) and that it's not that I'm not trying hard enough.
I'll try to go with the flow. In my new shoes. :)