Hmm. I got warthog too, but I'm not much of a fan of hot & dry. I must not have been paying close attention when I did the quiz. Yeah, that's it. :rolleyes:Quote:
Originally Posted by Veronica
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Hmm. I got warthog too, but I'm not much of a fan of hot & dry. I must not have been paying close attention when I did the quiz. Yeah, that's it. :rolleyes:Quote:
Originally Posted by Veronica
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Originally Posted by SadieKate
I got this as well.
:p
Why am I not surprised? :D
I want a do over.
But anteaters are unique and VERY special. . .
I'm a Mekong Dolphin and I like it! :)
Dear self:
Following the last third of a bag of sour Skittles with the second half of the container of pineapple was not the best idea you've ever had...
Me too. I don't understand this because I said my perfect place is near the water.Quote:
Originally Posted by alexis_the_tiny
Clouded Leopard hereQuote:
Originally Posted by emily_in_nc
Ah, I took it again, and it came up Honey Badger!
;) :D
Sweet:D:D:DQuote:
Originally Posted by jobob
I had to go back a few pages to figure out all the animal talk. But I'm a
Proboscis Monkey. Although, I don't really like to sleep in or go out late at night to party. I'm a dinner party kind of girl. And then I want to be home in my pajamas by 9, reading a book.
Cougar, interesting as I see myself as more social than that :)
Ditto -- water and clouded leopard? I wondered about that too.Quote:
Originally Posted by HillSlugger
http://www.zoovilleusa.com/cloudeds.htm
Leopards are big swimmers.
A real Honey Badger wouldn't care. :pQuote:
Originally Posted by jobob
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Originally Posted by OakLeaf
Touché. I'm a work in progress. :cool:
Dear favorite fur-god-child,
we're all going to miss you terribly. Blueberries are back in the shops and I remember how much you loved them. I hope you have an endless supply of blueberries and apples, not to mention cats and rats to chase around where you are now. Miss you awfully,
Godma.
(((((((alexis & furchild)))))))
Ah, I was not aware. Never gave leopards too much thought until now! :cool:Quote:
Originally Posted by salsabike
Thanks, SB!
Dear Acquaintance,
I don't think it is too much to ask for 2 complimentary entries into the 1-mile fun run in exchange for your design needs you have requested. It will easily take me 2-3 hours to complete your task (or longer), which, at my normal rate would be cost much more than the entry to your race.
So, no, I'm not going to help you out. I have too much work to do. Need to pay the bills then play with my kids. Let someone else waste their evening on your project.
~Limewave
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Originally Posted by limewave
Good for you! It's hard to say no sometimes. If you're doing volunteer work for event, you should get into the event for free.
Veronica
Dear Parent,
Do you really think it's a good idea to let you 11 year old son decide if he should take medicine for his ADD or not? We've been struggling with this for a year and a half now. And yes, he has had some good periods, but then he falls right back into his old ways. I can only imagine how much effort he has to put in stay focused. It must be exhausting for him.
I honestly don't know what else you think I, or your son, can do about this situation. You refuse to insist he medicate; you refuse to look at his diet. What do you think can be done?
I am going to sit at this meeting with you and you are going to cry, just as you have at the last four meetings, because you want him to do better. But you don't really want to do what you need to do.
Veronica
Dear Limewave:
Nice job setting up boundaries - I should take some lessons.
Dear Veronica:
Thank you for caring - even when the parents don't.
Dear Tucker,
You are the most adorable snuggle baby and I love having you in my lap. I would be happy to sit here all day with you rumbling away. Unfortunately, I do have to go to work. Please stop giving me "the look" that makes me regret that I have to move.
Your loving mom
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Originally Posted by Blueberry
I love you, but I think this is a little harsh. I suspect the truth is not that the parents "don't care", but more that the parents are out of their league in dealing with this problem. Parenting can be monumentally tough and the decisions are never easy. Enforcement of rules can be heartbreaking, even if it is the right thing to do.
Moreover, Veronica probably has more experience dealing with children over her years as a teacher than many of these parents. But she doesn't have to go home with the kids. That puts her in a unique situation to observe the parents. She surely knows the right thing to do from her experience; however, it is ultimately the parents' job to make those choices. And often things are not completely black and white.
MP -
That's probably fair.
I'm not a parent, nor do intend to be one. I was just reading off of the "you don't really want to do what you need to do." I know enough to understand that these issues are not black and white, and quite often no one really agrees as to what is best. I'm sure it's frustrating for parents. I don't envy what it takes to be a good parent - I'm not willing to put in that kind of commitment (hence - no kids).
I just get really upset by the situations where the teachers seem to be the only ones who care and are working with the kids, and the parents expect the teachers to do it all without their having to lift a hand.
Yeah, there is a lot more to the story - non English speaking parent, little insurance coverage, the boy is brilliant, but definitely coddled. It's their culture. He loves to read. I keep hoping he'll mature enough that he can cope, because he has so much potential.
Just drives me crazy that mom keeps asking for meetings to help him and I don't have anymore answers. And her crying makes me very sad. She loves him and wants him to succeed.
Yeah, I'd much rather be a teacher than a parent.
Veronica
Dear Honey,
I'm so so sorry that I don't want a dog as much as you do. I'm okay with you getting one but since I'm not thrilled about it... you're going to pass on getting the puppy. I really tried to manufacture the enthusiasm, I'm sorry I wasn't able to.
I love you so much and all I want is for you to be happy. This sucks. :(
Me
Veronica, here you could file a neglect petition with DCF if a child was not being given his/her medication.
Does the mother have a reason for not medicating him? Often times, parents, especially those with cultural, educational, or other handicaps really don't understand anything about ADHD. Of course she is probably mourning the loss of her "ideal" child, but if she understands that ADHD is an illness and not a deficit, she might be able to see how medication can help him achieve his potential.
I have seen this issue from the point of view of a parent, teacher, and therapist. It always surprised me when parents refused to consider medication. It doesn't mean you are a failure or your kid is a loser. And, you still need to use all of the other organizational strategies to help the child. Both of my kids were similar to this kid. Brilliant, but with the short term memory of a gnat and one was extremely disorganized, the other impulsive. One took medication for 7 years, and then through sheer will and determination made it through HS as an honors student with no meds. The other one tried meds in HS and they made him agitated, so he stopped. He would have achieved much more at that point in his life, if he hadn't had the side effects; now there are a lot more choices.
I don't think anyone, parent or not, can really know how it feels to have ADHD. It's really limiting, causes a lot of marital distress and firings from work. About 30% of the incarcerated population in the US has it. People think it's over diagnosed, but it's more that years ago, not everyone made it to high school, and there were more options/careers for people who didn't succeed. academically. Life was different.
Don't be so quick to judge. Of course a child's treatment is always in the hands of the parent, but sometimes, a parent really does not have the right information to make the right decision.
I am really glad that my sons got through school before this era, when we could be threatened for bad parenting for not wanting to medicate them. My DH has ADHD so he DOES know what it's like to have it. However, both of our sons got through school without medication (only one was diagnosed before high school), both got their bachelor's and one is currently working on his PhD. I don't think drugs are the only answer. I'm not even implying that what we did was the best thing. but just because we don't want to medicate our kids doesn't mean we're bad parents.
I think a big difference is the support you and your DH could give your sons. This mom really can't give her son support academically.
He is actually doing okay as a student. His math grades aren't as good as they use to be because math has gotten harder, more steps, more to remember... and he wants to read during the math lesson. :D
It's his distracting others that is my biggest concern and blurting out inappropriate comments. He's wonderfully, caring boy and a really neat kid - great sense of humor.
Anyway... thanks for listening. I appreciate the persepctive of parents who have been there.
Veronica
Dear coworker:
I really wish you wouldn't wear headphones when you eat lunch, because the sounds you're making are making me want to vomit. STOP BEING SO GROSS!! CHEW WITH YOUR MOUTH CLOSED!!
Sincerely,
not your mother
Dear self: Just write another page and a half. He doesn't actually care and just wants to see that you've written something. (I realize the topic you're supposed to be writing about is BS, but surely you can come up with some BS about the BS?)
Dear apartment:
Why have you swallowed my stamps? I need those to pay my electricity bill.
Dear car:
I love you and you're ever so helpful, what with my late classes and all that, but you are getting to be expensive. First the catalytic converter, then another car insurance payment, then the fact that gas is absurdly expensive here because it's the middle of nowhere (even though it's next to a mid-size city). Maybe I should buy another bike and let you have three days a week off...
Dear Self,
It really is okay to sell your bike.. You know it needs a better home and to have someone love it more than you can.
Dear Self,
What is wrong with you? Where is your motivation? A 1/2 marathon in less than 4 weeks and you have fallen off your TP. You have gained 7 pounds since Pike Peak. You don't exercise before work or after work! You are pushing 50 (ok only 48 now) and must find a way to keep moving. Why AM I still on the couch on my day off w/ laptop on my lap--go visit the TM in the garage that you just bought!
K
And back to the inner animal test, I'm a sea lion. Cool!
K
Dear universe-
All I wanted was one day off to go play. Why did my project's legal issues have to rear their ugly heads for tomorrow of all days? I've been busting my tail for this case for weeks now, on top of a lot of stuff that falls under "other duties as assigned". I need a break. *cries*
Me
Dear Ski Doppelganger:
I'm just heartbroken that your injuries were so severe that you died today. You were really a beautiful life force, and by all accounts a generous and giving person as well. You were too young.
Love, Your non-X games gold medallist, non model name double.
I was so sorry to read that today. I'm glad she was living her life and doing what she loved.