SK going off on one of her soapbox rants
Mimi, we are not bad guying you. We are bad guying whoever emphatically stated that you "WILL fall." This is the same negative lesson taught by my parents to me as a child: "Oh, honey, you stay here with me and we'll watch your brother do it." That's crap. Sorry. My parents only taught me fear. There are no guarantees in life about anyone's learning curve or aptitude until put to the test. If you haven't tried clipless yourself, you don't know that you will fall.
From my perspective, I see two discussions on this forum about clipless pedals: 1) which pedals to buy or 2) how much/often/hard each person will fall. Those who have mastered the pedals quickly don't say much because it sounds like bragging. There are some skills I've conquered faster than someone else but I'm not going to splash it all over the forum because I don't want others to feel inferior, yet I'm sure those others have mastered other skills faster than I. Due to this, we discuss the trials and tribulations of learning clipless but not the immediate successes.
By the way, a 65 yr old friend of mine just started riding seriously last fall. She got her first clipless pedals a couple of months ago and put in 300+(?) miles and has yet to fall. It's her attitude and the attention she gave to learning. She didn't just get on the bike and go for a ride. She spent some time doing nothing but clipping in/out and stopping/starting.
I've had this conversation with others offline and the general consensus is that the atmosphere on this forum is one of "you WILL fall" and it just teaches fear. We need to support, encourage and find ways to help each other learn, not surrender.
OK, off my soapbox.