A saddle that fits feels like...
I'm getting overly frustrated with saddles.
If your saddle fits, lasts long rides, and doesn't leave you wondering the entire ride that there might be a better fit out there... How does it feel? How did you know that you had THE saddle for You?
my whine: I tried a new saddle on Thursday, felt the sit bones the whole time, and felt the blood get cut off. I got out of the saddle frequently, but even then by the time I got home & stood up, I felt all the blood returning to that region.
I picked up a new saddle today ~ put the bike on the trainer stand & adjusted the old, just to make sure. Jumped on, and Yikes! are my sit bones bruise?! Changed to newest saddle - felt a little better, but still very evident where my sit bones hit. Kept rotating thru - back to an old "came with the bike" that I don't even know which of our bikes it originated from - but at least with that it didn't scream at me when I sat down. It's not great, but I think it's the best w/out taking it on a long test ride (that's later.
How will I know when I find the right one? I'm waiting for the day I sit & don't even think about what's holding me up... is that too high of a standard?
Sit Bones Should NOT Hurt
I have to disagree. With a good saddle, your sit bones shouldn't hurt, even if you only ride a few times a week.
When you find a good saddle, it feels like you're not sitting on a saddle. It's not too squishy or too hard. It's not too wide or too narrow. It supports your pelvic region in a very unobtrusive way.
If you haven't found a saddle that you can't feel, then you should keep looking. I happen to believe that with the plethora of saddles on the market, there should be one for everyone.
Don't Get Your Panties in a Bunch!
Here's a little chamois tip.
Wear the smallest size shorts you can squeeze your butt into! Really.
Too often I see women in the bike shop buying shorts that are a size or two too large because they're modest about wearing spandex. Well, when your shorts are too big, your chamois will move around (or bunch up). One of the best things you can do to improve your saddle comfort is wear tight shorts. Think of your shorts as a second skin.