Sorry, but another sore hoo-hoo thread.
Well, I'm sorry to add another one of these threads to the list but I am at my wits end. I finally have a bike that fits, but I cannot seem to find a saddle that does not make my hoo-hoo raw and painful. It feels like I am riding on my pubic bone as much as my sit bones, but my bars are right at or just a hair above saddle height. My stem is 80mm long and I know I am not stretched out too far. Actually it feels slightly less painful "down there and up front" the further back I shove my butt on the saddle when I ride - especially when I'm really trying to move along.
So far I've tried saddles with and without cutouts - leather and man made, both chafe in the same spots - up front near the top of the 'triangle" so to speak. The saddles with cutouts actually seem to put more pressure on the sides of my pubic bones up front where I'm having problems. The best I've tried so far is a Velo Orange racing type leather saddle with no cutout that is hard and almost flat as a board, but it is slightly too narrow in back, and I am sitting on the rails. It chafes up front but not as much as the others I've tried because I feel like I am sitting more on my sit-bones on this saddle than any others. (Padding or padded shorts make it worse)
I have a 2 day 140 mile ride in a couple of weeks and I need to get this sorted or I will not make it past mile 40. Help!