Suggestion: read and read again all of Trek's awesome, insightful advice!
Great advice, Trek: about the training, food on the ride, snacks and bedtime...especially the ear plugs! I was a rider on a few grassroots and local to the Northwest for my first few AIDS rides; they had less people than the former Pallotta Teamworks rides and I got used to more room in between tents...then, dang! what a surprise to have someone's head in the TENT NEXT DOOR be inches from mine - even closer than my own tentmate! Lotsa noises at bedtime...and, although I was sore some nights, I never had any trouble falling asleep and staying asleep - IF I had remembered to put in those trusty ear plugs! When it's a big group like that, all of the tents are SO close to each other and I felt like I was involved in involuntary eavesdropping when I was in my tent sometimes!
Thanks for the memories too, Trek, as your posts brought back plenty! On the Empire State AIDS ride, we have less people and more room to spread out...plus, the ride director - being an AIDS-rider herself has arranged it so that the crew not only sets up our tents, but delivers our gear bags to each also...makes Mary one happy, happy rider when I roll in each day! :D