Originally Posted by
Kalidurga
I've read this thread with a lot of interest. My 63 yr old mother was diagnosed with fibro several years ago and still struggles to deal with it. I don't know what meds she's on, but I do know that part of her problem is diet and exercise, i.e. she won't. Part of the issue is that slothfulness seems to run in the genes of my family, and part of it is that exercise is uncomfortable and sometimes painful for her. I'm convinced that if she starts out slowly and patiently, but sticks with it, that it'll gradually get easier for her. I tell her about people I've met, like you ladies, who manage to deal with their fibro and live active lives. Her response is generally to become defensive or get upset.
I understand that fibro seems to affect different people to different degrees and perhaps she's severely affected, but I can't understand not wanting to do something as simple as exercise in order to alleviate it. I'd love to get the perspective of women who have this condition. Am I not understanding what she's going through, or is there some way I can help her to become motivated to get moving and keep moving?