I cannot believe I'm thinking about getting my 6 yo an iPod Touch

[limewave]

I know it is crazy . . . . . but after looking at the options
mp3 player, digital camera, ebooks, video games . . .
Those are all things she's asked for.

The child-friendly options I'm looking at: Innopad ($80), Leappad ($100) and Nintendo DS ($100).

The apps and games for these cost $20-$40 each. And then there's AC adapters to buy and cases . . . which brings the cost up to $150+
The ebooks for the Leapppad and Innopad seem well under her ability (she's reading 5th grade chapter books). I just feel like she would quickly outgrow them. The Nintendo DS is neat, but the games are pricey and can be lost. And its not an MP3 player.

So I'm thinking about the Touch. I can get a new Touch for $150. We already have an extensive music library and photo library on iTunes we can upload for her. It has the camera she really wants. There's an online library of any apps we purchase so that they can be replaced if something happens.

It's weird, I thought I would never consider it. But I am. That would be her only present from Santa--but its a doozy.

[Pax]

The Luddite in me screams Noooooo! But the realist in me says it's a whole new world and tech is an integral part of it, the funny thing will be that she probably already knows how to use a lot of the features. ;)

[ny biker]

Your 6 year old has asked for a camera and an mp3 player?

FWIW, I would not be eager to encourage young kids to listen to music with earbuds. I would worry about hearing damage.

[channlluv]

Does the Touch take the same apps the iPhone does? If so, she'll have access to Kindle and tons of e-books, lots of language games, math games. And it's easy to carry in a backpack.

DD had several language-building tools when she was growing up and I never regretted it. She's a big reader now, prefers real books as opposed to ebooks, and she tends to do really well in school. I think your daughter will enjoy the Touch.

Let her bling it up and make it her own. :)

Roxy

[indysteel]

The Luddite in me screams Noooooo! But the realist in me says it's a whole new world and tech is an integral part of it, the funny thing will be that she probably already knows how to use a lot of the features. ;)

That was my reaction, too. I have a hard time appreciating just how different children's lives and educations are thanks to digital this and computerized that. Heck, I didn't own a cell phone of my own until 2006, at the age of 37. LW, do you think there's much chance that she'll lose it? That would be my fear. But I misplace my own iPhone at least once a day, so I'm not sure that's a function of age.

[limewave]

Does the Touch take the same apps the iPhone does? If so, she'll have access to Kindle and tons of e-books, lots of language games, math games. And it's easy to carry in a backpack.

DD had several language-building tools when she was growing up and I never regretted it. She's a big reader now, prefers real books as opposed to ebooks, and she tends to do really well in school. I think your daughter will enjoy the Touch.

Let her bling it up and make it her own. :)

Roxy

yes--same apps as an iphone! There would be some serious restrictions/responsibilities to go along with such a gift. The Touch may stay in mom and dad's possession and have to be "checked-out" and returned . . . until she's a bit older.

Talking this out with a friend she said that buying such a thing would spoil her, what would I get her at age 9, 11, 14 . . .?
I replied: a 24" mountain bike, 26" mountain bike", and a road bike!:D

[ny biker]

That was my reaction, too. I have a hard time appreciating just how different children's lives and educations are thanks to digital this and computerized that. Heck, I didn't own a cell phone of my own until 2006, at the age of 37. LW, do you think there's much chance that she'll lose it? That would be my fear. But I misplace my own iPhone at least once a day, so I'm not sure that's a function of age.

I know a lot of teenagers who can't take care of their iphones/ipods. They're always losing them or breaking them.

[badger]

our neighbour's 4 year old had an iPod touch when he was about 18 months old, and for his 4th birthday they gave him an iPad. Not what I would do, but the kid navigates around it like a whiz.

[Pax]

Just a suggestion, let her pick the color, but make her keep an otterbox (http://www.otterbox.com/iPod-Touch-4th-Generation-Defender-Series-Case/APL2-T4GXX,default,pd.html?dwvar_APL2-T4GXX_color=20&start=1&cgid=ipod-touch-4th-generation-cases) on it.

And they're much cheaper on Amazon.

[channlluv]

I like the "checking out" idea. It will give her a chance to show responsibility.

I also think it's fine to give kids who show an interest in technology the tools to foster that interest. My daughter was helping her dad build computers when she was three. She can load software, troubleshoot tech issues, and so on. She goes to a tech school. Her friends are mostly geeks. It's a tech world.

The geeks shall inherit the Earth.

Roxy

[Kiwi Stoker]

A friend's 4 year old has a iTouch. They like the fact that they DON'T have it connected to the internet and that it isn't a cellphone.

They only let her use it at home and they have attached a electronic "finder" to the back of the case, so if it gets lost they can find it.

[GLC1968]

The geeks shall inherit the Earth.


I thought they already had! ;)

I like the idea and think having to do a 'check out' with mom and dad makes a lot of sense. Actually, so does an Otterbox. I've got one on my iphone and even though I've dropped it numerous times, it still looks brand new (the phone, not the Otterbox!).

[trista]

We got my daughter's ipod touch for her when she was 6. She's now 7 1/2 and it's been one of the best gifts I ever got her. There are SO many fun educational games she can play. It's a better investment than the other electronic gadgets aimed for kids b/c it can do just about everything she wants, and it grows with her. We have rules of course... it has to be checked out with permission, time is limited, not allowed ever on school days, you must be sitting when playing, and earbuds are not allowed (she can listen to music on the charger station speakers). She plays math games, problem solving games, stuff like that.... she loves it.

I say go for it!

[Cynedra]

My sister got her daughter the IPod Touch at age 7. At the time I couldn't understand it. But I do now. My boys spend more time using the apps on my SmartPhone than I do. They have some really good ones. If I had the money, I would possibly consider it (or something similar) for my 6 year old, even though every part of me still screams NO!!! as well.

[Tri Girl]

It's difficult for many of us (as 30-40 something-yer-old adults) to accept the changing world. I'm sure it was that way with PC's for our parents. It's the same way for kids now. Their minds are wired differently than ours are. As a teacher I have to consciously think of how to integrate technology into every lesson to keep them engaged and challenge them. It's how they learn best. Maybe not how we learned, and definitely not how our parents learned- but it's an ever-changing world.

Personally, I think an itouch is a great gift. The games on it will challenge her and keep her learning the way that she'll be learning for the rest of her life. I think a phone at that age is ridiculous, but a learning tool is a different story.

[Trek420]

The Luddite in me screams noooooo. So does the daughter of a very successful reading therapist, sibling of two college profs, daughter in law of a librarian ...

But then you won't let the toy replace quality time with reading, desk skills, non-screen learning I'm sure.

Recently I was on a flight with parents and the most darling child in front of me. She was probably 2 or just about that. They were valiantly keeping her occupied when she turned around and saw my iPod.

Her eyes went big and she reached for it "The preciousssss ... mine!" :rolleyes: :D 2, OMG. :o

I thought to myself "self?" I thought "there's plenty of time for iPods and such. How often does she have an artist near" and whipped out my sketch book.

With the parents permission I began with drawings already in the book "Here's a birdie. Do you know what that is? Yes, a tree. Where's the bird? Do you want to see a doggie? Where's the dog in this picture? Yes! That's the dog! What color is the dog? Yellow, yes. Do you have a favorite color? that was a little advanced for her so to the parents does she have a favorite? ok it's pink Would you like to see a pink dog? Yes, that's funny. A pink dog. Here it is .... the pink dog has the purple bird on his back. Yes, that's funny ..." and so on and so on alllllll the way to Seattle :)

As we landed the parents asked "Can we hire you to fly with us ALWAYS :p Hmmm, how often do you fly here? ;)

But that's what you want, language, interaction, creativity, talking, play, reading ... all of it. There's no ap for me, or more important for quality interaction with YOU and other caring adults in her life.

[OakLeaf]

Part of having an active social life is being culturally literate. She can have all the friend time in the world, but if she doesn't know the songs her peers listen to, the YouTube videos they watch or the games they play, what will they have in common?

When I was in grade school all my classmates had transistor radios and I wasn't allowed to listen to popular music. Trust me, cultural isolation does nothing for a kid's social life. The particular medium in which the culture travels doesn't matter - that the kid has access to it, does.

Limiting access seems like a good idea, at least until she can prove she can be responsible with it. I'm pretty sure there are parental control settings that limit the volume, so that shouldn't be an issue.

It's also obviously a gift that can grow with her. Next year, learning that she doesn't always need the latest fastest processor and biggest storage capacity will be a good lesson, too. :cool:

[limewave]

I'm quite relieved we found a good present for her. She is so difficult to buy for in that she doesn't like toys, she doesn't play! She loves soccer, going for runs and bike rides, reading, listening to music. She has never played with barbies, playdo, etc. All she's wanted is soccer clothes, clipless pedals for her bike, music player and a digital camera.

Anywho . . . anyone upgrade recently to an iphone or ipad and want to sell me their gently used ipod touch? ;)

[shootingstar]

clipless pedals? She must want to be like mama. :D

[limewave]

clipless pedals? She must want to be like mama. :D

She recently won a pair from the LBS--so now she has nicer clipless pedals than I do! And they are even pink! Sheesh. We also picked up shoes for her off the clearance table for $5.